Friday, February 18, 2011


"They live for love, die for love, kill

for love. It can be stronger than the drive to stay alive."


I wonder what is this drive and why is this so strong?What makes us go so loony over this.

Science says Dopamine(to give that adrenalin rush),serotonin( to bind) and caudate nuclei(for memory aka inertia), these three makes the feeling consuming. The process is initiated by  factors like (smell, taste…) leading to the insatiable desire for Good Genes and perfect nurturing Ground.(that’s how we are evolved)


This consious effort to rip off this obscured yet coveted practice was just to shed light on the powerful force behind it.

I cant deny the importance and indespensibilty of the NON-CHEMICAL factors involved after all they are the ones on our mind all the time and makes it more elusive.

But as I write this post many things seem to make sense to me like the importance and need of Reciprocity for the sustainability of a relationship(considering the chemical secretion involved) and also the NON-chemical factors involved which inherently leads to the same thing but again I still need to discover the reason behind the predominance of the latter.

I hate to define the entire process too mechanical but to accept it has some mechanics involved is not bad either. 

Sunday, February 6, 2011


Many a times we wonder we should save ourselves from all these negative words or at least negatively perceived words so as to focus on the brighter side of a situation but I think in this practice of neglecting the negatives we tend to expect too much from the positives.

When we just try to focus on choosing the best ones we tend to miss out on learning more about rejection, which in itself is an amazing skill to work upon.

Rejecting something involves more honest assessment of our requirements and helps us to keep focused unlike choosing the best ones coz the latter is not just mostly influenced but is many a times  misleading as well.

To reject something is more likely to give us clarity on what exactly we want coz it not only removes the clutter  but also leaves us with may be not the best option available but the most appropriate one and hence can put away those unnecessary hiccups which otherwise is due to the misconception between what’s best and what’s apt.  

So strive to be appropriately best and not just THE BEST!